40 year old man dating 27 year old woman
Her personality is likely to be more developed and more stable, which might make any interaction with her easier and more fun than with a younger woman who is shy and who has a number of other hang-ups about men.
Although of course older doesn’t mean automatically smarter and more interesting, one would hope that most of us become wiser and otherwise more mentally attractive as we gain life experience with passing years, which is a combination of meeting and knowing how to interact with different men, lessons from past relationships and an ability to appreciate what those women used to take for granted.
Although I didn’t have my heart broken, that blind date made me feel so much hurt that I was a write off from the outset.
When dating, we are more open to trying out new things, thus a wider gap we list as acceptable. We had very little to talk about or discuss, and never been very close. There was really nothing connecting us except our interest in each other.
I was told straight out that he would never date me seriously. Why do older men believe that women of the same age aren’t worthy of them?
When I asked why, thinking it was some kind of joke, he looked at me straight in the eye and said, older women aren’t fun or tight enough… Why do they believe that women in their 60s aren’t fun or “tight”?
The more mature women are entertained by sarcasm and other kinds of dark humor rather than being intimidated or offended by it, which makes talking to them all the more enjoyable.
You will not have to walk on eggshells when talking to an older woman as it takes much more to offend her than a girl who is in her late teens or early twenties.