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However, it may be possible for him to shift from fantasy to reality now or over time as he realizes he has to make some concessions if he wants to have a real partner. Lies About Age He is typically older, in his 50s, 60s, or even 70s, and is set on meeting and dating women significantly younger than he is, so he shaves years off his life in his profile, even in his "current" online pictures.
He may be very well meaning, and may truly believe that once he meets these young women they will be so drawn to him that the deception won’t matter, and the age difference will be rendered irrelevant.
Rather, he moves from one online-created connection to the next, or back and forth between many, and barely if ever have to leave the house.
Internet dating enables him not to engage in a meaningful way.
Sometimes he will admit to the women he finds online that he is using Internet dating as a diversion, and sometimes he won’t.
However, with patience and fortitude there may be the possibility that a substantive relationship can develop.
For this article I used the descriptions of women who have shared their online dating experiences with me to describe 11 types of (heterosexual) men who are drawn to Internet dating.
Internet dating is an outlet for him and he is not planning to leave his partner anytime soon, if ever. Lost in Fantasy How many profiles do you see that list things like as relationship must-haves?And how many of these criteria do you think are the direct result of the relationship he just came from?More than finding a partner who will meet all his hopes and dreams, he wants everything he has longed for but couldn’t have in previous relationships.He’s just not ready to involve himself in real-time dating with people he may connect with online.There are a multitude of reasons why this happens, but at the core, he is not ready or able to embark in a substantive relationship, regardless of what his profile says.