Daughter dating rules
We need to let our sons and daughters-in-law raise theirs. My grandparents and in laws are all very nice at least!
My oldest daughter likes fancy restaurants and expensive shoes. So even if your daughter-in-law decides to get yet another butterfly tattooed on her arm, say nothing. And really, didn’t you want to make your own decisions when you were her age? I don't want my kid to have zero relationship with his grandparents.
If it happens to be closer to her parents, that’s okay. And maybe you want to take them somewhere: to the beach, the zoo, a park, on vacation. On the floor when they are little, and board games as they get bigger. There are two kinds of grandparents: the get-on-their-level kind and the rise-to-my-level kind.
You want to open the door and have them rush into your arms and cover you with kisses.
Sons grow up, meet girls, get married and voila, a couple is formed. But it takes a lot of us mothers of sons a few years, maybe decades to realize this. Some of us dig in our heels and continue to play by the old rules. I’ve dug in my heels and had arguments with my daughter-in-law I wish I hadn’t. She didn’t want a wedding party a few months later.
And like it or not when this happens the rules change. Mothers are the go-to person for their sons’ first 20, 30, sometimes 40 years. Some of us insist upon standing smack in the middle of the new couple.
A Zoroastrian man who marries a non-Zoroastrian woman can at least ensure that his children are raised in the faith.
They are always very nice and happy to see my kids well at least until my sister in laws kids arrive after that it's like my kids dont excit. I want my child to have a great relationship with all of his grandparents!
My husband and I try to keep in touch and travel often to see them my inlaws because we want them to be close to husbands side of the family.
It’s taken me 10 years and three grandchildren to finally get it.
A man leaves his parents and his wife becomes his focus.
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Dragged her up in front of the guests and then got angry, because she wasn’t thrilled. She’d say, “I was in the neighborhood” or “I’m not stopping to see you, I’m just saying hi to the kids” or “Just ignore me. ” How can you get angry with someone who makes you shortbread? Pick your battles, my Aunt Lorraine used to tell me.